We often think that others are responsible for making us feel guilty. This is not true.
Others may try to manipulate us by saying certain things to make us feel guilty and at times they are very effective in causing us self doubt. However, the reason that manipulators are able to make us feel guilty is that a part of us agree with their message and the doubt already exists in our head.
Codependency is usually associated with the term “enabling.”
Enabling is doing something for someone that they can or should be doing for themselves. It is taking responsibility for others. I often hear people say “I like helping others”, “It makes me feel good,” and “I am a good person.” Many people derive their sense of ...
YOSSY GOLDMAN, BROUGHT TO YOU BY UNION COUNTY TORAH CENTER-CHABAD
Once upon a time, a pious Jew was traveling through the countryside in Eastern Europe. He came to a shtetl where the local schochet (ritual slaughterer) had just taken ill. The town butcher had no one to do the slaughtering and was desperate when he bumped into the visitor. The traveler looked pious and G‑d fearing (perhaps he wore a black hat and a beard) so the butcher ...
Retirement means different things to different people.
You might think of it as a standing tee time at Echo Lake Country Club, while your neighbor would like to hop on a six-month cruise around the world. Many millennials and younger professionals aren’t thinking about retirement in that traditional sense at all, as they face the burdens of student loan debt and an uncertain future ...
SCOTCH PLAINS, NJ -- Do you feel like your finances are being pulled into too many directions? Between paying off your mortgage and credit card debt to saving for retirement or your child's college education, you may feel like you're not achieving your financial goals. Here are five ways to help give your money.
UNION COUNTY, NJ -- Nominations are currently being sought for the prestigious 2019 Unity Achievement Awards, presented each year by the Union County Human Relations Commission (UCHRC) to individuals, organizations, and businesses that have distinguished themselves in the area of volunteerism, public service, and the promotion of human rights.