Refreshing is meeting a faithful and supportive companion with common long term goals...if the synergy works. Luck favors those who put forth the effort in a relationship.
Meeting someone who is fit, healthy and enjoys life on a daily basis is refreshing! Someone who is into family and friends. Someone with discipline is key but not to be compulsive.
A little modesty leaves room for pleasant upside surprises. Everyone wants a good deal but only a well-balanced fair one lasts over time and is totally refreshing. Having chemistry when you meet is very refreshing - a la the certain intangible...the sparks...the laughs...the smile.